I can't recommend Charlotte enough. As an artist and a person, she goes above and beyond for anyone who purchases her art. She was incredibly patient with me in finding the perfect stones. I went with oxidized and moonstone and its the perfect gothic stained glass window vibes. I do recommend oxidizing if you do moonstone as it helps the stones pop out more, I didn't love the polished look but its up to each individual preference. These earrings are a good medium size. Not too heavy, too small or too big. You can measure on a ruler to see the approximate size.